I have a somewhat complicated financial life with a large number of accounts, and many transfers between them I need to keep track of. Sometimes Quicken identifies transfers correctly, but just as often I'll end up with downloaded transactions with incorrect destinations, or the two sides of the transfer will each be assigned itself as the category instead of the other end of the transfer. In that case I have to delete one of the two transactions, and then change the category on one of the sides to be the destination account.
What can I do to help Quicken get these transfers right more reliably?
Does it help to use memorized transactions/payees in some way, even when the dollar amounts on the transfers are rarely the same number?