Do you download/install Quicken Deluxe 2013 from https://assistant.quicken.com/patch/ASDES5672FR13/Old_Products/QWIN/QW2013DLX.exe?
What did you do exactly to get the error message? You should just open your Quicken 2009 data file in Quicken 2013 and it will be converted.
QW2009 still used a multi-file data set as described here: https://www.quicken.com/support/quicken-data-file-set-extensions
Make sure that you have all of the files needed.