Ok bear with me:
Bill pay/transactions have always gone like this: I go to my bank and set up my bills to be paid. Some weeks in advance. Then I go to quicken and simply log those in the register (just like with a paper checkbook register). Every few days I'll do an update to download transactions and ONLY the transactions that have cleared would download.
NOW -- I enter transactions in the register (including forward dating them if they are to happen later) but when I update (download transactions) *now they all download right away AND WORSE -- WITH TODAY'S DATE...so A) it effs up my register in terms of balances cuz the dates are all wrong and

it often ends up with TWO entries -- the one I put in and the one it downloaded*.
SO basically Quicken changed some setting FOR me?? I have no idea what nor how to get back to my old, simple way of paying my bills, logging it in the register, and ONLY having them download when I update IF they have cleared. Not when they are "scheduled" (which is what I believe they seem to be doing).
Can anyone guide me to fixing? Phone wait times are craze long and just now when I got thru, I got disconnected immediately.