If you haven't done so already, I'd say it's time to call Quicken Support on the phone and request help. Let them do a screen share session with you to review the situation on your computer, to determine the nature of the problem and to figure out how to fix it.
Quicken Support:
bill21 said: the setup dialog does not provide any option for the connection type.
bill21 said: thanks for your input. I'm not interested in the web connect option, since is not subject to automatic triggering. I was hoping to see "direct connect" as an option, but haven't seen that as an option, even when I deactivate the account and then re-activate.